Two Major Blockages that Shapes your Life

26/2/2025

In my clients' lives, the ability to choose the right life partners and the ability to choose the right careers seem to have the most profond impact.

For most people, work and relationships makes up our adult lives. In other words, they dictate what we do during business hours, and who we are to be with after business hours, in the world today. Added on top is the time it takes for us to experience and find out if we are the right fit for both, which makes them the most expensive decisions we ever have to make. 

What if I were to tell you, the ability to make the right choices is always available to everyone sans energetic blockages, how does that change the way you go about your life?

I never quite appreciated the fact that I got into software, because I knew it was right for me, at a very young age, while a lot of my peers were struggling to find anything that remotely interested them to pursue later on as a career. After my career change, I still enjoy coding, even though it's not something I practice: healing has higher priority. While my work life has always been a breeze, romance is a complete dead zone.

About four years ago, one of my healers pointed out that my parents' ability to pick romantic partners were pretty much nonexistent. At that stage, I only knew they weren't compatible, it's interesting to actually think of it as the ability to choose being the primary factor. Recently, I had revisited the topic due to some movements in my father's field. Turns out my father's ability to pick the right career is 10/10, mother is 0/10, and I am sitting at 8/10. In relationships, father scores 3/10, mother 0/10, and I have healed up to 4/10 so far, from 0/10 at conception. 10 being the most optimal, 0 being 'What does that even mean?'.

These blockages can be easily spotted in families. It is a fact that family names either flourish or die, there is no in-between. What might be the driving forces to a diminishing blood line? The obvious one is the ability to reproduce. If everyone in the family has always picked the wrong partner, the probability of producing healthy off-springs would be lower, and the personality conflicts between the parents would not have made it an ideal environment for the children to grow up in. So we successfully made a 'lesser-than' next generation, and it carries on and on, without healing. As far as the work blockage goes, it could manifest as the person not being able to support themselves financially, which usually blocks any desires to reproduce. And even if it does happen, the children are likely to be subject to malnourishment and undereducation.

Another day, another realiseation :)